I hope this letter meets you well and I sure hope being married to a billionaire is treating you well too. It must really be going well indeed because I hear you have recently trademarked the name “Billionaire Wife” and also opened your company under the same name of “Billionaire Wife”.
In all earnest, I am very much happy for you that you are able to make the best of out your marriage by making a name for yourself via your billionaire husband’s wealth channel.
However, the reason I am writing you this letter is to ask you why you feel the entire country especially the female gender is upset with the fact that you married a billionaire. I have always wondered why you feel the constant need to remind us that you and your husband are very much in love and are not at the verge of breaking up.
Is it that you are trying to spite someone by rubbing your marriage in their face? Or is this just your own way of staying relevant in the media?
Whichever the case may be, it is PATHETIC because (sorry to say), your “marriage” hasn’t even passed the ONE, FIVE or TEN year test.
After one year of marriage, you can take a sigh of relief that you made it. After five years, you can brag about being able to make it work and after TEN years, you can beat your chest and sing an anthem to whomever you think might be jealous of you.
Let me also say that if really you are trying to spite someone barely one year after marriage, then WOE BETIDE YOU if your marriage doesn’t make it to the “one year” or the “five year” mark. Remember the saying “he who laughs last, laughs best”.
And if for whatever shallow reason, you are floating in a bubble where you think everyone is upset, jealous and envious of you because you married a billionaire; I urge you to kindly wake up and smell the air, NO ONE ACTUALLY CARES.
Take a look around Dabota. You are not the first, second, third and neither will you be the last woman to marry a billionaire. Remember the name Bianca Ojukwu? Ring a bell?
Or maybe you may argue that Bianca is not from our generation.
What about Mercy Igbokwe?
For those of us who do not know Mercy, she is married to Oscar Igbokwe who is also a “billionaire business tycoon”. Mercy is the MD of Kyrie store in Abuja and is an ebullient lady with a sweet and humble personality.
You do not hear Mercy ringing an alarm because she is married to a billionaire and neither do you have her recording “videos” with her husband where they are telling the whole world not to believe rumors saying that they are breaking up.
Please take a moment and watch the video below which Dabota posted on Instagram of her and her husband responding to the supposed “rumors”.
Clearly Dabota, you are not the only one to marry a billionaire. So I ask you again. Why do you feel the constant need to remind us that you are happily married and making a fortune out of your own billionaire?
Mercy Igbokwe for instance has a multi million naira luxury fashion store in Abuja. Do you see her making noise about it? Bianca inherited billions from Ojukwu. Do you see her making videos where she is swimming in wads of cash?
I take it that this money you have just found yourself in is new money to you because if you were born into money, you would realize that marriage is not about showing off your husband or the amount of money he has but rather it is about putting in effort (jointly) to make your home work.
Lastly Dabota, I believe I speak for the entire nation when I say PLEASE STOP MAKING YOUR HUSBAND RECORD SILLY VIDEOS ON INSTAGRAM saying to the world that you both are in love and are not breaking up. Trust me that was the silliest idea yet.
Focus on building your home and forget about the eyes that you think are watching. Those eyes exist only in your head and to be honest, NO ONE REALLY CARES.
Have a blissful marriage!
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