Hello guys, it’s Feature Friday! Every Friday I would be sharing a real life experience and situation of a reader who needs my opinion. If you have a situation that you need my opinion on, email me on featurefriday@alocovivavoce.com.

Read the situation and my opinion after the cut. The names have been changed to protect the identity of the person being featured. Enjoy!

Hello OUR,

My name is Adanna and I have been married for two years now. When we first got married, my husband was a sweetheart. He behaved in such a loving manner that I was the envy of all my friends.

All of a sudden, without any prior warning, he started acting like a completely different person and has left me confused. He now stays out late EVERY night and to make matters worse, he doesn’t eat my food any longer.

He used to come home for lunch before but now when he even comes home late, I stay up waiting for him expecting him to be famished but he refuses to eat. Even in the mornings, we normally eat breakfast together but he still refuses to eat.

I have tried talking to him but to no avail. He just gives me the silent treatment without any change in behavior. I don’t even know if I am the one who offended him but I have apologized to him several times for whatever I did unknowingly.

Please advice me OUR. This new behavior of his is tearing our home apart. How do I get him to come around and go back to the man I fell in love with. I want my husband back. Help me get him back!


Hello Adanna,

It is very obvious that your husband is going through something that he is not sharing with you. Everyone is different and handle certain situations differently. So I would kindly urge you to be patient with him.

From what I understand, you have lived through the “for better” part of your relationship and from all indications, this is your “for worse” part and remember you made a promise to him in the presence of God and your loved ones to be by his side “for better and for worse”.

You just have to keep encouraging him to talk to you about what is going on. Don’t fight or quarrel with him about it. He needs a wife now and not a wrestling partner. Sit with him in silence if he doesn’t want to speak. Let him know that you are willing to share his burden with him.

And most importantly, pray about it and eventually he would come around. But whatever you do, DON’T GIVE UP ON HIM. Even though he’s not communicating with you at the moment, he needs to know you are there for him no matter what.

I hope I have been of help. Thanks for sharing!

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3 replies »

  1. I totally agree with alocovivavoce,she’s in a better position to advice you,because she’s married,most times men can be very funny,you need to pray about it,and be yourself behave as though nothing is happening and keep the home going with love and respect,with time he will condide in you…wish you the best darling 😘😘


  2. As said from other replies, you have to be patient with him and pray. Also talk to someone he respects to talk to him. All will be well.

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