Hello guys, it’s Feature Friday! Every Friday I would be sharing a real life experience and situation of a reader who needs my opinion. If you have a situation that you need my opinion on, email me on featurefriday@alocovivavoce.com.

Read the situation and my opinion after the cut. The names have been changed to protect the identity of the person being featured. Enjoy!

Hello OUR,

My name is Eric and my lifestyle is not fair to ladies.

I have been in several relationships but unfortunately, they all end the same way where the lady complains that all I care about is sex and to be honest, they are right.

For a while now, I have actually been looking for a nice, decent girl to settle down with but for reasons unknown to me, whenever I see a lady, all I can think about is having sex with her.

It’s not like I would have sex and run away or never speak to them again. Rather, it’s the other way around. All I actually want to do is have sex with them, all day, everyday.

At first, the ladies find it cute but then after a while, they start complaining that I never call them or message them and that all I care about is sex.

Please help me OUR, I really want to change. I want to build a strong relationship with someone without my love for sex driving the person away. Please let me know how I can stop wanting to have sex so much.


Hello Eric,

I’m no medical expert but from what you’ve said, it sounds like you have Satyriasis which is when a man has the constant need/desire for sexual interaction. Simply put, you are addicted to sex.

The first step to solving any problem would be to identify what the problem is. So I am actually glad you are willing to make a change to your sexual addiction.

I would ask you to go to therapy or see a specialist but that probably wouldn’t come cheap so the fastest, affordable method to get rid of it would be to go the the Almighty God in prayer.

As much as sex is a natural act and a beautiful thing, there is a saying that “TOO MUCH OF ANYTHING IS BAD”. So sex is great until you start having too much of it then it poses a problem.

Go down on your knees and pray to God with a humble and contrite heart and I am sure he will hear your prayers.

If you can afford it, feel free to combine your prayers with visits to a specialist every now and then and I’m sure you’ll be fine in no time.

Also, it wouldn’t be a bad idea to share your addiction with a lady that you’re seeing whom you really care about. You never know, she may surprise you and be willing to help you through it instead of running away like the rest. But share it with her before she gets to find out on her own so she doesn’t feel manipulated.

I hope I have been of help. Thanks for sharing!

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11 replies »

  1. I totally agree with alocovivavoce,I think you should stick to her advice to you,it not a new thing under the sun,there is always a way out…


  2. He is posses with spirit of lust, let him go and see deliverance minister. When that spirit is gone, all those desire will vanished away.


    • Thanks for your comments John. I agree with you that he needs lots of prayers. That’s the quickest way to rid himself of the constant need for sexual pleasure.


  3. i think u should stay away from ladies for a while and pray to God that that spirit should depart from you


  4. I’m really surprised seeing all these comments from fellow readers. Making suggestions of prayer, deliverance etc might be a solution for him if he had said that he was possessed with the spirit of lust. My little words of advice is for him to refrain from certain acts that trigger constant want for sex. Acts like watching ponography, engaging in dirty and filthy discussions with friends etc will go a long way in doing him good. Let him pre-occupy his thoughts withother useful things. And let him get a job. I guess if he is the type that wakes up 4:30 Am and gets back home by 9:00pm, he wont have time for too much sex. All the best bro.


    • Well I guess so but sometimes when it is a condition even fatigue might not stop the addiction. But there is no harm in trying out your advice. Whatever works really!


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